I struggle with child-rearing philosophies too. I'd like to attachment parent but the world I live in isn't built for it. I do the best that I can though. I think babywearing to get things done will be easier once he holds his head up and you can wear him on your back. At least that's the theory which I have not yet had the opportunity to test. I do manage to start the laundry and transfer it to the dryer sometimes.